Reenter Your Virgin Era: How Pop Culture Keeps Us Coming Back
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to enter the world of reality TV as a virgin? Well, wonder no more, because Hulu’s new dating show “Are You My First?” is here to satisfy that curiosity. Featuring a cast that Hulu describes as “the largest, hottest group of virgins ever assembled,” the show takes place at a luxurious resort and follows 21 conventionally attractive, self-identified virgins in their 20s and 30s as they search for an opposite-sex partner to “swipe their V-card.”
Many of the contestants on “Are You My First?” cite their conservative religious beliefs, primarily Christian and Mormon, as the reason they have chosen to wait before diving into the world of sexual intimacy. While some have never even been on a date, others have dabbled in physical relationships but haven’t quite hit a “home run.”
Rather than passing judgment, the show treats virginity as a reality TV twist, similar to a gay version of “The Bachelor.” Hosted by Colton Underwood and Kaitlyn Bristowe, the show aims to explore adult virginity in a non-judgmental way.
Executive producer Karen Plumb explained that the show’s goal is to shed light on the reasons behind adult virginity without criticism. Many contestants express fears of being vulnerable or embarrassing themselves with potential partners, showcasing a generation that struggles with intimacy and communication.
According to Carter Sherman, author of “The Second Coming: Sex and the Next Generation’s Fight Over Its Future,” these apprehensions are indicative of a larger trend known as the “sex recession.” Despite being a naturally horny generation, Gen Z individuals are grappling with anxiety around sex due to societal pressures and expectations.
The show’s debut comes at a time when virginity is at the forefront of American culture, aligning with recent conservative waves and a decline in sexual activity among younger generations. As viewers tune in to watch the journey of these adult virgins, they will witness a reflection of society’s evolving attitudes towards sex and intimacy.
From movies like “Splendor in the Grass” to the Jonas Brothers’ purity rings, American popular culture has long been fascinated by sexual inexperience and debut experiences. Whether through film, television, or music, virginity has been a recurring theme that captures both shame and curiosity.
So, if you’ve ever pondered what it would be like to see adult virgins navigate the world of dating and relationships on reality TV, “Are You My First?” offers a unique and engaging glimpse into a topic that is as relevant today as it has ever been. Tune in to see how these contestants tackle their fears, navigate intimacy, and maybe even find love along the way.
