Most Valuable Parent: Thorns Keeper Bella Bixby on Returning to the Pitch Postpartum

Bella Bixby, goalkeeper for the Portland Thorns, is not just a soccer player—she’s also a proud mom to her 14-month-old daughter, Ruby. As one of many parents in the NWSL redefining what it means to be a “soccer mom,” Bixby shares her journey of returning to the pitch postpartum and balancing motherhood with professional sports.

When Bixby traveled with the team just 10 weeks after giving birth, Ruby came along for the ride. From her early recovery days to her return to the pitch, Ruby has been by her mom’s side every step of the way. In an interview about motherhood, Bixby opens up about the challenges and rewards of being Ruby’s mom and a professional athlete.

As a professional athlete, Bixby finds parallels between soccer and motherhood—both require giving 100% every day and a drive to be the best you can be. She emphasizes the importance of being present for her daughter and helping her grow and develop.

Bixby is proud to be a soccer mom in a supportive environment where her teammates act as aunties to Ruby. From maternal figures to fun aunts, her teammates play a role in Ruby’s life and growth, making the locker room a welcoming place for the young soccer fan.

Traveling with a baby for away games is no easy feat, but Bixby credits her husband Elliot for his support and the help of her teammates. While juggling game days and travel can be challenging, seeing Ruby on the sidelines brings a sense of grounding and perspective for Bixby.

When it comes to babysitting, Bixby trusts teammate Sam Coffey as her go-to auntie. Coffey not only engages with Ruby but also helps out Bixby and Elliot, making their mornings easier. Other teammates like Sam Hiatt, Jessie Fleming, and Hina Sugita are also very involved with Ruby, creating a strong support system within the team.

As Ruby gains popularity among Thorns fans, Bixby jokes that she might need to put “Ruby’s mom” on the back of her jersey. Despite her daughter’s growing fan base, Bixby looks forward to the day when Ruby can participate in fun activities with the supporters’ section, just like her coach’s daughter did.